Navigating Sacred Romance Rumbles, Separations, & Reunions

The coming together of soul bonds and soul mates can be very intense and beautiful at the same time. I remember the phase of my life when Kasha and I came together. We were both going through our own processes of awakening to our individuation from birth family and our 3D lives at the time.

There were lots of soul rumblings and remembrances happening at a lightning pace for parts of me. It was a lot to process and digest, yet it felt infinitely more alive than what I had been experiencing in my life at the time. I shuttered the doors on my ‘past life’, packed my bags and moved into my new timeline.

Eventually, the parts of me that had not fully caught up to what the heck was going on needed their voice and pain to be heard and felt. I could feel myself vacillating between my old life and my new life. Kind of like the static you would get on an old TV when changing the channel.

A lot of that static got projected onto each other and tried to resolve it in our bond, when in fact the resolution and reconciliation could only happen from within, self to self. Eventually, we needed to take our space in order to feel the parts of us ‘left behind’ in the wake of all that happened not too long prior.

To a part of me, it felt like there had been a rupturing even as I spent many months (and even a year before that!) being with parts of me around the decision to change my life trajectory and purpose. Another part of me wanted out of the gate, while other parts were still rooted in the past needing more time to process all that was coming up from my awakening.

As I was able to spend more time being with these parts of me, feeling them, holding them, loving them, and bringing them into the Present, I was able to claim more of my ‘I’ rather than trying to find it in the ‘Us’.

However, this too is a process. There were phases of how much ‘I’ had been present and accounted for in our future coming-togethers. Each time we took space, we found more and more connection to ourselves and the Divine to bring us to where we are now. Even today, we still feel the versions of us that related to each other in the past as vital and important parts of our bond.

What I have learned from our personal journey together is that any sacred intimate bond is going to have its challenges and its phases of going to our own sides in order to realign back to our own center and feel where parts of us have needed us to see and feel them rather than the other.

Parts of us try so hard to get their needs met by another (or some outside ‘thing’), that they lose sight that the need can ultimately only ever be met inside from self-to-self and self-to-the Divine.

This doesn’t mean there is some perfected place of attainment around this. It just means that when there is enough ‘I’ in the space, it can hold what comes between ‘Us’ with a bit more compassion, understanding, faith, and grace, even if there is a realization that a separation or completion is necessary.

IF there is a separation or completion, then that emerging ‘I’ has the capacity to be WITH the grief rather than AS the grief. This is an incredibly sacred journey as I have witnessed in my experience, in Kasha’s, and recently with Jelelle.

The other side of this is a deepening. A new ground of recognition and connection that was not available before. This takes you on the next leg of the journey until you reach the next place of growth individually and in union.

I hope that this serves as a reminder that we can never be truly lost and separated from the Love that holds us from the Divine, from the Mother and the Father, from the angels, our guides, and our Divine Self.

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Gabriel Amara is a Divine Masculine Love Ambassador, Divine Self Embodiment Facilitator, HEARTist, and soul scribe.  Visit https://www.divineselfembodiment.com for more information about space-holding sessions and free 45-min intro calls, group calls, videos, community, etc.