This is a big weekend focused on inner and outer love! On top of Valentine’s Day we are currently having a Divine Self Embodiment group weekend where each have our own processes to share yet we get to support/witness each other in those movements.
Yesterday I connected to my inner masculine who didn’t realize that he was feeling unacknowledged and not appreciated in the way he needed. In fact, he wasn’t aware he had needs in the first place! He felt more comfortable with being a background driving force rather than being in the spotlight and letting in love.
My invitation was to ask him what his needs are more and to water the more emotional and tender parts of him. He is so focused on making sure he’s taking care of me that he forgets he gets to be happy and fulfilled too.
This feels like such a common struggle for the masculine in general and how it hasn’t been encouraged for them to feel their needs or emotions. This can create tension, overwhelm and burn out which prevents them from being able to be in intimacy or genuine joy.
I held a ceremony with my masculine where I share everything I appreciated and loved about him and acknowledged the insecurities that he still holds at times. I wrote this letter to him to share some vows that I want to hold in relating to him going forward.
These vows are not binding or enforced in that energy but are more intentional desires!
To my beloved masculine,
I vow to acknowledge the way that you have helped me survive in this world, even when the focus needed to be practical.
I vow to appreciate the way that you care about the environment I’m in and strive to make it beautiful and comfortable.
I vow to see when you are struggling and invite you out to share what you need with me
I vow to water your gifts and all the qualities that make you uniquely my masculine.
I vow to invite out your emotions and validate them in a way that they usually aren’t for the masculine.
I vow to feel your heart and how you so selflessly want to serve and make me happy.
It’s time for us both to be happy and to return all of the love, care, and compassion that you have given me for so long,
Thank you for making it possible for me and all my beloved kitties to be taken care of and held. For always tracking what needs to be done and having the energy to respond to it.
I invite you now into rest. Into a phase of stepping back and letting in all that you have created and done.
Let in the love that you have put out and allow yourself to be seen and appreciated. Slow down and give space for the slow, the graceful, the tender.
Together we will create a flow of collaboration and deeply divine love. You are me and I am you, intertwined yet serving in our separateness. Together, we are infinite.
I love you< Raianna
If you’re wanting to connected to inner and outer love like this, there is a Sunday Service dedicated to this topic. There will be teaching and a meditation, followed by sharings from those who desire and feel open to it. It’s free or you can exchange a donation for the love given and received! More info here to join and take in the recording.
I also now serve women in 1:1 session space where I can help you connect to your own inner masculine to discover what his needs and desire are! Feel free to contact me or go here.
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