The Sacred Union Journey, Part 3: The Counterpart Field & Serving Love

I see so much ache for conscious romantic partnership, and how easily bitterness or settling can begin to take the place of continuing to dream.

Being willing to wait. 

Being willing to keep your heart open. 

Being willing to say “no” when necessary, or “yes” when the heart truly calls for it.

Soothing the parts of you who are recovering from love lost or, to their notion of it, never truly found. 

In my mate ache of the past, before Gabriel and I came back together, there were many portals I would choose to walk through. 

Portals that opened up pain, relationships with masculine brothers and lovers, reflecting desires that still lived in my heart which could never be shut down entirely or dampened for long. 

Hand-in-hand with whichever part of me needed to be felt, I would walk through the mists within, following the threads woven by so many feelings: reactions, self-protectiveness, fear, discomfort, desire. 

Different versions of my Inner Masculine would come forward, alongside the different feminine parts of me who needed space to be felt. 

Eventually, they learned to feel each other and flow into union together, experiencing healing in deeper places than they thought could ever be possible.

I would visit memories of being ghosted, being sexually pursued but not fully claimed, feeling ignored. 

And sometimes the journey went further still, into karmic timelines of being exploited, shunned, or persecuted in different lifetimes by the masculine. 

I would need to find my empowerment again despite all of that. To allow every part of me to be felt, and lovingly brought into new ways of understanding what had happened and why. 

To eventually see how it had all brought forward the mirrors that needed to be looked into.

There were also some explorations which led to feeling higher-frequency timelines where the draw of Sacred Union was easier, where the bond didn’t bind or bite, where the purer energies of mutual love had little to no difficulty moving between us as souls.

It is right there, in that momentous space between the two: feeling the fears and the needs, the potential and the reality of what has already been experienced. This is where the healing of the heart takes place within us, and where it is invited to deepen with a very sacred “other” whenever they come forward.

The timing is something the healing heart and soul eventually learn to surrender to, as the urgency of “I’ll never have it” settles and dissipates in its own time. It still flares from time to time, but eventually there is more trust than tension.

There is a field holding space for all of it. 

And I lovingly call that space the Counterpart Field. 

I don’t want to take away any of the magic of when the right mate comes into your life. It is truly and deeply a nuanced experience in itself. 

But there is one piece I want to offer most. Which is to say that the Counterpart Field is not only a place to feel your beloved before they arrive, but is actually a frequency that can be applied to all sacred romances. 

It’s a dimension that is not only visited, but can be carried with you in the pocket of your heart. 

As close as the pendant of your most loved necklace. As close as the way your hand instinctively rests upon your chest when you feel touched or grateful.

It’s a field of consciousness, and as such, it can be moved into or away from at any moment, consciously or unconsciously.

The Counterpart Field isn’t simply where I meet my beloved. It is what I lean on as I serve Love. 

It’s a field of service, ultimately, which to me is the realest reason to want Sacred Union for all of its very human messiness and divinity, both. 

Gabriel and I visit the Counterpart Field together sometimes, which is becoming a more regular practice for us. It’s always an experience of beauty and shared vulnerability when we visit it consciously, holding hands, settling under our tree companion there, its roots infinite.

There we gather with our higher-frequency aspects, who lately have been represented by our galactic lion and lioness counterparts (who we often find sweetly snuggling together). We also meet the parts of us who may need some space to unfold and be loved by both of us. 

This place is a source of inspiration for us as we live into our desire to serve couples in Divine Self Embodiment, as we collaborate in our online English teaching business, and in countless other areas of our life together too.

Perhaps every time you feel your own heart flutter or waver, your defences activate or soften, your painful experiences come forward to be felt and reconciled, your own access to the Counterpart Field is calling you.

It is inviting every part of you and all that is and has been real for them to be validated, held, honoured, and loved. 

You have only to open the door of your own heart’s consciousness and choose to walk through it, one willing step at a time. 

Love,

Kasha 

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Kasha Rosa is a Divine Feminine Love Ambassador, Divine Self Embodiment Facilitator, soul scribe, and poetess.  Visit https://www.divineselfembodiment.com for more information about space-holding sessions and free 45-min intro calls, group calls, videos, community, etc.